WWBGD: What Would Bob Goff Do?

Bob Goff is one of my heroes. I first heard about Bob in a Donald Miller book, and then he wrote a book himself.

After reading Love Does, I got the sense that Bob Goff does something epic and whimsical every single day. He rides an Indian elephant to work or makes a balloon elephant for a child or rides an Indian elephant with a child while making a balloon elephant for said child on the way to work.

In recent years I’ve tried modeling much of my life after Bob Goff’s. I want more of his whimsy infused into my own story. Basically, I often ask myself: WWBGD?

I suppose that’s a slightly sacrilegious acronym. But whenever I wonder whether I should do something, I inevitably consider whether Bob Goff would do it; usually, he would. And if Bob Goff would do it to live a better story, why on earth wouldn’t I?

Remember my New Year’s in Times Square? WWBGD.

My #RunningTo road trip at large? WWBGD.

And this past Easter weekend? Once again I went the way of Bob Goff and answered the call of WWBGD.

Easter Sunrise; Pretty Place, SC

I’ve been restless this last month living in Charlotte. I’ve been fortunate to find some tutoring work here, but I still have so much downtime. I’ve been exploring coffee shops and city streets and parks, walking around and kinda going mad knowing there’s a big world out there whispering my name with every breeze.

I’ve been thinking about taking a brief road trip for a while now. A day trip to Asheville or a weekend in the Outer Banks or some trek into that other Carolina to the south.

As Easter weekend neared, the opportunity arose to join a friend at my #7 favorite Instagram’d moment of my road trip. The pretty place with a pretty cross and a pretty view of the valley that I swore I’d revisit someday.

I never really thought about the decision. I knew Bob Goff would do it, so I did it. I packed my hobo bag for an overnight stay, and I went wandering again.

Traveler's Rest, SC

Just beyond a city aptly called Travelers Rest are some mountains. Tucked into the mountains is Camp Greenville and the prettiest outdoor chapel I’ve ever seen. I first wandered there in late January and watched the sun set over a giant wooden cross and both Carolinas.

I left the hills that cool January night determined to return someday. I just had no idea “someday” would be hardly three months later.

What better time for a reunion at the cross than Easter morning?

We arrived at Symmes Chapel amid the graying black of 6am, and there were over 100 people already there. Apparently an Easter sunrise at the cross is a really Christianey thing to do.

At 7:11am on that chilly Easter morning, the sun peeked over the mountains. All gray turned to yellow as Easter greeted this Carolinian landscape.

Easter Sunrise; Pretty Place, SC

It was a much needed wandering. How I’ve missed the thrill of the open road. The process of creating moments in majestic places with dear friends.

I’ve now seen that cross at sunset and sunrise. Perhaps someday I’ll go back and catch her view at noonday. Perhaps I’ll see this pretty place during autumn and gasp over a totally new assortment of colors.

I’m not saying I’ll go back to Pretty Place every three months or that I’ll even take a road trip somewhere every single weekend. But I get scared when I start losing my whimsy. I don’t ever want to go back to an ordinary life. I’ve learned to ask myself what Bob Goff would do, and in so doing I’ve made his whimsy my own.

I want to look at my life less like WWBGD and more like WWTMZD.

I want to embrace a naturally whimsical identity that never wonders whether to do something inconvenient or unconventional. I just do it.

Because gosh, life is way too short not to ride that elephant.

Pretty Place; Camp Greenville, SC

How did you spend Easter? How can you infuse a little whimsy into your life this week?

12 Comments
Beth Ewing 9 April 2015
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Love this post! Bob Goff has highly influenced me, and your conclusion is spot on. So glad Pretty Place is available to you. One day I’ll have to wander there myself. PS, my friend says try finding Rainbow Falls, located somewhere within the park.

Jaymie H 8 April 2015
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Great blog. I’m so opposite in how I live my life, and it’s driving me nuts. I have a massive amount of stability, but it scares me. I work 830-530 M-F, and have an upsetting amount of responsibilities. Adventures don’t find me, but how can they when I don’t make time for them… when every moment is wrapped up in my plans and in making sure I get enough sleep so I don’t end up late to work. I’m scared of losing my life in these details. You’re inspiring. Bob’s inspiring. I’m inspired but I don’t know how to be like that.

Rebecka 8 April 2015
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I fell asleep on my brother’s couch on Easter Sunday. Not sure how whimsical that is…

JK Riki 8 April 2015
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Bob Goff is indeed terrific. I was invited to hear him speak once, before I had ever heard of Bob Goff, and I don’t know why I went but I did and I’m glad I did. I also met a new friend there who I keep in touch with on Twitter, which is not something that usually happens. It was one of my first times randomly meeting a new Christian friend like that.

I would say, though, that after hearing him speak I think there’s a very deep aspect to him you should keep in mind while W.W.B.G.D.-ing. While Bob Goff does indeed go off on adventure after adventure, the theme I pulled from his talk was that all the adventures were about others, not himself. He got amazing experiences out of it, but every story he told was not about him, but about someone else. He hosted parades on his street for the neighborhood. He went to Zanzia to help an orphaned kid (and brought him back to the US to visit) for the kid. The way he runs his company is all about his employees, which he “proposes to” every year to ask them to stay with him one more year. Bob Goff, in spite of all the whimsy, is extremely others-focused. It’s like he’s a side player in everyone else’s play almost. He is the exciting fellow that comes into the scene with balloons and maybe indeed riding on an elephant and he says “Let’s go!” But the play never seemed to be about him, as he spoke. He always seemed to showcase the bit part he played in his speech, instead of the starring role. I didn’t realize that until right now, but it’s the feeling I got then.

Not that I’m trying to rain on your parade here! 🙂 We all need the times to go out and do stuff for ourselves. It was just on my heart while reading this to be a gentle reminder that it very well may be vital to see the drive behind Mr. Goff. Bob Goff starts his adventures with the purpose of serving others (or at least that is the very clear impression I got when I met him in person; I have not read his book so I don’t know how it came across there). I think that aspect, not so much the “anything goes” aspect of his choices, is what makes him so admirable. 🙂 Of course, I think you know that and this post was more about the whimsy aspect, and I have gone off topic and should just be quiet already. I think I wrote the above for myself more than anything. Because too often, as an artist, I get so caught up in the whimsy I forget the “why.” So all that was really for me, thanks for letting me get it out! Now I need to copy and paste it so I can read it more often and remember to remember the why of whatever whimsical I do.

“No life is ordinary when God is fully in charge.” Popped into my head as I read your worry about returning to an “ordinary life.”

Anyway!

I had a wonderful Easter myself. Fabulous church service that I got to be part of, then dinner (which was really lunch) with lots of family and two members of my church who are rather new, but I love dearly. One of them is going back to Korea soon, and I will miss her, so it was great to have her there for more fellowship time! It was not as adventurous as your Easter, but I enjoyed it anyway! 🙂

bryonbella 8 April 2015
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Las Vegas Nevada vlog doccumented search for Subway. W.W.B.G.D?